Barbara Ann Boch died at home Wednesday surrounded by her children and grandchildren. She was 86.
Mrs. Boch was born in Boston and was the daughter of the late Walter and Dorothy Lyons. She was a 1948 graduate of Jamaica Plain High School.
She worked at New England Merchants National Bank.
There she met her husband, Ernie, a prominent businessman and car dealer. They were married for 50 years before his death in 2003. They raised four children in their Norwood home.
Mrs. Boch was a stay-at-home mother, kept a spotless house, and enjoyed volunteering in the many activities involving her children.
She participated in the PTA, school library, school music program, and Norwood Sting Ray swim team. She organized fundraisers, was a Campfire and Girl Scout leader and always found time to help the teachers in and out of the classroom.
Mrs. Boch loved dancing, many kinds of music, attending the theater, and had a passion for shopping.
Her son, Ernie Jr., said his mother was one of a kind.
“It’s true that behind every strong man is an even stronger woman and she was that woman,” he said. “She taught us as a family to be kind and give back.”
A daughter, Karen Clemmey, called her mom the “gatekeeper” of the Boch clan.
“She was very keen and an unbelievable matriarch,” said Clemmey. “She kept the family together and was adamant about us having dinner together.”
The grandchildren said their “Grammy” made them feel special.
“My Grammy and I would often go to Bertucci’s for lunch. We’d sneak home some dough and then bake rolls together. It was our little secret,” said granddaughter Karisa Clemmey.
“Grammy was a stickler for proper etiquette and table manners. She was the classiest and most elegant Grammy in the whole world,” added grandson Austin Clemmey.
“Grammy loved to watch me ride in my horse shows. She taught me patience, as there was a lot of downtime in between competitions. … This time with her was extra special and I’ll always remember how much Grammy loved me,” said Siara Clemmey.
The family spent summers on their boat and Martha’s Vineyard became their favorite spot. The Bochs’ love for the ocean and particularly, Edgartown on the Vineyard, inspired them to build their dream home, which they thoroughly enjoyed with their family and friends.
Mrs. Boch’s passion for helping others was portrayed in the many charity events they hosted on their Vineyard property, especially Camp Jabberwocky and the Water Tasting…